October 11, 2008

The 411 on 211

211   Last night I saw something on the news which really caught my attention. It was the 211. There is actually a govt. program named 211, you can go to it on the web or call 211 and they will actually give you 411 on all kinds of help a person can get when they are needing help. Most of it seemed to be financial and housing related. Haven't done any checking on it, but while I was on the Florida gov. website getting some tax forms (ugh!!) I noticed again on the Florida Website.

The reason Im even mentioning this, is that I know of of folks in our church who are loosing homes, jobs and are in dire financial straights. Many of us don't have the funds to help them, and don't even know where to send them. 211 can give some direction to the right resources, and how to get to them.

So just wanted to pass it along. If any of you have used 211 or know of someone, let me know how it helped. In these times, Im for any 411 that can help folks find some relief. You can click on this website.

http://www.211-broward.org/

October 10, 2008

30 Days to Live is Coming to an End!!!!!!!!!

30 Days to Live  30 Days to Live comes to an end this week. I am glad this was a hypothetical Question to each of us. What if I had "30 Days to Live". I hope it has been a series that has helped us all live our lives in the view of Eternity.

One month to live As we end I want to recommend  a Book to you if you would like to further your study and go deeper. It is the book that actually inspired the series. Last year when we planned our Sermon series for 2008 we had heard about this book and the Pastor who wrote it. While our sermons did not come from the book, many of the principles are in the book and you might want to pick it up. 

The title is "One Month to Live" . If you want to order it right now, just go to the column to the right and click on the Recommendation and it will take you to Amazon.com. You will get the discounted price. 

I also encourage you to go to our church website and listen to the Podcast of the messages, or you can now see the video on our website.  This series is ending but I hope the principles we have learned and been reminded of will continue to be implemented into all our lives.    

October 09, 2008

Thursday Dump!!!!!

You're going to get DUMPED ON!! Again, I have more to share than I have time or space. I'll just say a little and connect you to where you might be interested.

Church Work Day this Saturday, All Campuses, 8:00-noon.

Workday I hope many of you will come join the pastors this Saturday. If you can't make it at 8 am. then come when you can. You can find out more about what to bring by clicking here

On the list of things to bring are lawn mowers and edgers. We have those lined up already so don't worry about those big items. If you can bring any of the others listed on our link above, then great. If you can't bring anything but yourself that is the most important thing. Plenty to do.

Christmasatoasis At the Pines Campus we also need volunteers to come and hlep Pastor James and his team begin the outside prep for Christmas at the Oasis. So you have a choice...Yard Work, or Christmas. Take your pick. Bring the famliy. 

BreakfastbunchNew Sermon Series Begins this Weekend

The Breakfast Bunch   Over the next 3 weeks this series will do what breakfast does when we eat the right things. It gives us some of the Essential Nutrients to make a Great Day!!! This series will be practical but life changing. If you have a friend who needs a pick me up and some really good practical life changing principles this is for them. Bring them. This series is good for those of us inside Oasis Church and those who have not yet found the Refreshing that Oasis Church loves to share. See you this weekend or at one of our 7NOW services, at 7 pm

North Miami (NoMi) Welcomes New Campus Pastor

KevinandSuzie As most of you are aware, last weekend we said Goodbye to Jeremy and Jeanine our Campus Pastor at Nomi . They are now on their way up I-95 to Jacksonville as I type, with cars and moving truck. Jeremy begins next week laying the foundation of a new church, Oasis North Florida. But more about that later. Kevin McCord will now assume the role as Campus Pastor at NoMi. Kevin, our Administrative Pastor, will serve as the interim Campus Pastor until God fills that position with His permanent Pastor. Kevin was the one who led the merger of Oasis Church with the good folks who were there as the First Baptist Church of North Miami. He knows the new attenders and the ones who have been there for decades. Kevin has not lost his love for North Miami and the people of NoMi even though he hasn't been involved officially the last year.  He will lead NoMi while coninuing his role as Admin. Pastor. We are  working to move some of his responsibilities to others. So pray for us in that area. Pray for Kevin and Suzie who are both so talented and do such a good job at leading in so many ways. Pray for the Oasis Church members at NoMi during this time. They will not be sitting still, I can assure you that.

Discover Oasis (Pines Campus)  Next Sunday, October 19th, 1:30 p.m.

If you are interested in knowing more about Oasis Church then next Sunday you need to be at our Discover Oasis gathering. We will serve you a complimentary lunch and share about our Past, Present, and Future. You will hear our Vision, and our Beliefs. What makes Oasis Church the "Refreshing" place that it is. How can you become connected. If you have been baptized in the last month, or begun attending this year and have not attended a Discover Oasis gathering, you must do it. Along with others from our Pastoral Team I will be sharing with you. You will have your questions answered and be given a chance to find out what you might want to know about Oasis Church. If you plan to attend, go online and register, or you can mark your Connection Card this week, "Discover Oasis". More info will be on the website and bulletin this week. See you there.  

Promise Keepers Update Click Here 

Did you Know we now have a Monthly Ladies Bible Study????

Click here to see last month's update of the very first one!!

Another Oasis Story/30 Days to Live

For those who attended the services I spoke at this past weekend, you heard me mention a long-time friend and member of Oasis Church. I have known Peggy Reed since High School. This past week I asked her to weigh in on her perspective of life/death and the 30 Days to Live series. You see, Peggy has been dealing with cancer and these issues on-going now for about 4 years, and 180 Chemo Treatments. She is one we need to learn from. I could not share all of her thoughts Sunday, but I want to share her email to me with her thoughts. They are worth reading. Thanks, Peggy for being open, transparent and willing to lay your life open for all of us to learn from.   

"First of all, I don’t like to think about 30 days to live.  I try to think of each day as my 30th day – and accomplish all that I can that day.  None of us know if day 31 will arrive, so I thank God for each day I wake up, feel good, and try to live the day as He would want me to.  I remember from D.C.S.  (Dade Christian School) someone saying, don’t do things unpleasing to God – what if He called you home at that time – how would you feel when you faced God?

Things that I think are important.  First off, your relationship with Christ.  I have been a Christian since I was very young, but thru life, I can see where I didn’t always put Him first.  Now – I do my best to keep Him on the top of my “List”.  Every day I thank Him for another day.  We all know our days are numbered, but when you have an illness like cancer, you somehow feel your number is coming up sooner than if you weren’t sick.  One way I deal with that is I do not focus on cancer.  Sure when I do my 3 days of chemo – it’s hard not to think about cancer when you feel so lousy.  I have never said “Why me God?”  Instead, “Why Not Me?”  I won’t know those answers until I get to Heaven.  I do wonder why such wonderful people I have met with cancer, like my dad or Sally Rogers, have had to deal with cancer.  I do know that I would never have met so many people with cancer if this didn’t happen to me.  I guess my church would fall in this area, as I feel so good at Oasis, and I know I have the support of many when I need it.  

The next most important thing on my list, is my Family.  For my children, I don’t try to change them or tell them what to do, like moms always do, and I used to do.  I just want to be there for them –spend time with them and talk about everything.  In my family, some of my kids had a hard time when I was diagnosed.  But I have had to let them deal with it in their way, and today I am grateful that they all are dealing with it well.  As you know, my grand kids are the love of my life.  Each day with them I say I am “making memories.”  I may or may not be here when they graduate, get married, or even have children.  But I take each day God gives with them and I want them to remember all the good times we have had.  Getting them involved in church and knowing the Lord is so important to me.  I want to be with them in Heaven – so teaching them and helping develop their relationship with Christ is so important.  (I must brag and say I will have a granddaughter any day now – and I will love her and “Make Memories” with her for as long as God allows me).  (I just got word from Peggy that little Penelope Anne was born Sunday night. Congrats to grandparents John and Peggy, )

The second part of my family are my parents.  This has been a tough time for them as well.  I have never had a child diagnosed with an illness such as cancer.  But I can only imagine how my parents feel.  For nearly 4 years, they have been right at my side.  My mom won’t hear of anyone else going with me for chemo every other week.  It somehow seemed to give her more purpose to be there for me and help me when I needed help.  This last year with my dad dealing with cancer has been my most difficult year in my life.  I do think that maybe I have experienced cancer, so I could better deal and support my dad with what he is going through.  I would never have thought I could be able to help mom and dad so much, without God’s strength.  Dad dealing with being so sick, and mom emotionally and physically drained at times is just not what I ever thought about. 

The third thing on my list is my friends.  I can’t even count the wonderful people I have met thru cancer.  The friends I have had so many years before cancer – who would do anything to help me – ANYTIME.  My relationship with them is so much stronger and meaningful.  What they have done and offered to me and my family is unbelievable.  The cancer patients, the nurses that have cared for me, and doctors seem almost like family now.  I have known and spent time with many of them for nearly 4 years now, and they almost feel like family.  The exciting part, if any, is I would have NEVER met them if I didn’t have cancer.  I believe God has had a big part of these relationships – hoping that they can see Christ in me.  I have learned how to love these friends, support them, pray for them, and show what strength God can give.  I always say my life evolves around cancer and doctor appointments – but God can use you everyday and with all the people you meet.

One thing I no longer put as importance is my appearance.  We always want to have a good appearance – look the best we can.  I have to accept my appearance, skin problems, lack of hair, lack of taste and other physical things.  And people seem to accept me as I am.  (Guy – I really did look better than this once!) (BTW, I wish I had a picture of Peggy her out of our High School yearbook. She was one of the cutest girls in our school. Note by Guy) Another hard thing for me to have learned is to accept help from those who offer.  I have always done for others, and being on the receiving end of things isn’t anything I have ever done.  So I try to give all the help I can, and ask for help when I need it.  Also, I find it comforting when someone will just come up and say “You have cancer too!’  I’m not embarrassed by it, and find encouragement from people like that.  That also gives me opportunity to express God’s strength and blessings.

I don’t want to say cancer is a blessing, but certainly through times like this, God continues to give blessings.  I am blessed to be a Christian, to have family and friends to rely on, and most importantly to love and receive love from.  Love is unmeasurable!

Guy – I know you and many church members pray and are there for me.  It’s like a warm fuzzy feeling to think about that.  I hope I can get more involved in days to come – all in God’s time!  He’s keeping me busy with family for now.

Thanks for caring,

Peg

October 06, 2008

Full Circle

Dennis and jeremy going awayandcoming 004Sunday evening, October 5, I had the chance to speak at my home church, First Baptist Church of West Hollywood. Actually as of a few weeks ago, it is now "Hollywood Community Church". The occasion was the Installation Service for Dennis DaCosta who is the 5th Pastor in its 54 year history.

Dennis and jeremy going awayandcoming 001I had the privilege to call the first 3 pastors my Pastor. For Dennis, the 5th Pastor, it has been my privilege to be his pastor for the last 10 years at Oasis Church. The last few years have been dark years in the life of FBCWH. The church had declined to  the point many believed it would not survive. But as the theme of the Installation Service printed on the bulletin "No Explanation But God". God has orchestrated what I believe to be a miracle this past year in bringing Dennis back to his home church. It is growing again and the excitement was noticeable as I had a chance to speak twice this summer and then Sunday evening. 

Just a short paraphase of my comments. I connected the dots from the begining of the church under its founding pastor: 

  • Dr. E R Bowers. I came to the Church in 1963 as a year 7 old boy. I rode the only bus the church had -- a 1951 Studebaker, with my mom and family to church. Dr. Bowers founded and built the church for 12 years until his health failed. He dug the foundation of a great church, with deep south, blue collar, salt of the earth people. 
  • In 1967 Dr. V.S. Ackerman became  Pastor and over the next 20 years the church grew to one of the largest churches in the United States. It was featured in Dr. Elmer Towns' book in 1972, "The 10 Fastest Growing Sunday Schools in the United States". During that time God did incredible things. "No Explanation But God......"
  • Bud McCord who grew up at the First Baptist Church of West Hollywood, would become the 3rd Pastor in 1987. He served 18 years and made many needed changes, albeit not always popular, in order to position the church for the 21st Century. I will be forever be indebted to Bud and the church, for it was during his tenure the church sent Tonia and me out to Pembroke Pines to start the Oasis Church.  He was my 3rd pastor at West Hollywood. 3 Years ago God called Bud and Pam McCord back to Brazil as Missionaries, where they served prior to coming back to FBCWH in 1987.
  • Last night brought us full circle. I had the privilege to be a part of Installing Dennis DaCosta. Having been pastored by the previous 3 pastors mentioned, and now having pastored the 5th Pastor, Oasis Church was giving back the son of this once great church to become their Pastor, and I believe he will lead it to be a great church once more. I believe it will make a great impact on its community as it did the first 50 years under my 3 pastors who, between them served 50 of the 54 years. What a legacy!! 
  • I presented Dennis with a Study Bible on behalf of Oasis Church, and borrowed some of the words Pastor Bud McCord had inscribed on a plaque he gave us seventeen years ago, on September 15th, 1991. But this time we inserted the name of Dennis DaCosta.  Dennis and jeremy going awayandcoming 003    
  •  My words began with the words of martyred Missionary, Jim Elliot, "He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep, to gain that which he cannot lose".  Below is written: We the members of Oasis Church, "Give you Away" to your new ministry so we can forever "keep you" with us.  You will always be ours. October 5th. God bless you. We love you, Guy Melton and the members of Oasis Church.
  • The full circle was completed when I announced to my sending church (FBCWH) of 17 years ago that they would become Grandparents in February of 2009. One of our our Staff Pastors, Jeremy Higdon who has been with Oasis Church for 12 years, will begin a brand new Oasis Church in Jacksonville, Florida in February. (We hired Jeremy as a youth intern straight out of Liberty University). This very night was his going away celebration at our church in Pembroke Pines. So the child of West Hollywood, Oasis Church was now birthing a new church and the mother church is now the grandparent. What an awesome day! Dennis and jeremy going awayandcoming 017
  • I challenged Dennis to live out the words of Paul to Timothy in 1st and 2nd Timothy.  I then wrapped up with 5 things that summed up the verses as a challenge to Dennis: 
    1. Love God
    2. Love People
    3. Preach the Truth
    4. Practice Self Discipline
    5. Finish the Race

    Dennis and jeremy going awayandcoming 012 Dennis stands on the shoulders of these 3 great men, who exemplified these passages so beautifully.

  • From there Tonia and I headed out to Oasis Church to say goodbye to Jeremy and Jeanine Higdon at their going away celebration. It was a bitter sweet time. We are so excited to sponsor them in this new church but sad to see them leave for Jacksonville. I'll be sharing much more about this new church in the days and weeks ahead. Over 300 of our families are giving financially and praying for them as they go. If you want more info. go to  Oasis Church of North FloridaDennis and jeremy going awayandcoming 034 

  • This pic has Faithe DaCosta, Cathy Humphries, our good friend, Pam Curry (Faithe's sister) Tonia, and Faithe's mom, Veva Smith Dennis and jeremy going awayandcoming 006

October 04, 2008

Oasis Hollywood Ties the Knot

Adams_Wedding_004[1] Today two of our finest at Oasis Church Hollywood tied the knot. John Adams and Julie Stubbs met at Oasis Church and have been involved in so many areas. They are several of the anchors of the campus. John is now on Staff and oversees our Kona, our coffee shop on our Pines Campus, and also our Facilities and Events at Pines.

They were married at our North Miami Campus and had the reception at Orangebrook Country Club in Hollywood. They were a beautiful bride and groom. I'm so proud of them both.

Adams_Weddingjeremy Jeremy Cox, a former Campus Pastor at Hollywood, officiated and did his usual awesome job. What would you call that growth on his chin????? Is there a name? He and Julie are expecting their 3rd...and finally a little girl. I'm jealous.

Adams_Wedding_005[1] It was great to see an old neighbor of ours, Jane Newman. She is a good friend and was a part of Oasis for ten years. She accepted Christ at the Pines campus and went to Hollywood to help plant the new campus. She is now living in downtown Fort Lauderdale and going to FBC Fort Lauderdale. We miss you Jane, and your young man, Jacques.

Adams_Wedding_006[1] This pic is of Armando and Ilia Lopez. Now that is one dancing Lay Pastor!! wow!!!

Congrats to Mr. and Mrs. John Adams

October 03, 2008

I am Almost Ready to Pull the Trigger on the I-Phone

Iphone Well, I almost did it. A couple nights ago I had an advertisement tease me into filling out an on line app. for the I-Phone. Several months ago, our Staff gave me the money for a birthday gift and said get a new phone. My Razor is falling apart. For several months, I have bounced between the Blackberry and I-Phone. 

So I decided to fill it out and see what the monthly cost would be. It also said once it was on record all I have to do is go in and get it. So I did. But right before I was finished it said they would run a credit check. I wasn't prepared for that. With the credit crisis this past week and hearing all the scary stories about credit tightening and even frozen, I thought, what if I get turned down.

Now, I have a high credit FICO score. It's in the excellent and close to the top of the credit scores. So why would I worry about it? Well, with all going on, I did hit the button and held my breath. It went through. Now remember it's only for about 200 dollars.

Just my little story of the way the Crisis or so called Crisis the politicians tried to scare us. Well, it worked. They passed it today. Did you notice the Stock market went from +275 to -150.   (This was posted just one week ago, and now today , Oct.9th, I heard the Stock Market is down in the 8,000 point range, (down 1700+ points from the silver bullet bailout), the lowest since we came out of the 911 crisis when Terrorist struck our Pentagon and  Twin Towers, some Bail out and rescue , huh!!, Again Im glad my treasure isnt here on earth, are you?)

Oh, BTW, I didn't get the I-Phone yet!!!! Still considering it.

545 out of 300 Million

Well, I can't help it. This morning I was sent what you will read below. I hardly EVER send something that is just a paste and copy, but this was too good and too true, since the Money Crisis has been in the news and seems like everyone is thinking and talking about it. So this totally non-partisan article below really sums up my Personal Opinion as an American Citizen!!! What say you????? 

545 PEOPLE

Politicians are the only people in the world who create problems and then campaign against them.

If both the Democrats and the Republicans are against deficits, why do we have deficits?

If all the politicians are against inflation and high taxes, why do we have inflation and high taxes?

The president proposes the federal budget.

The House of Representatives has the Constitutional authority to vote on appropriations.

Congress writes the tax code.

Congress sets fiscal policy.

Federal Reserve Bank controls monetary policy.

100 senators, 435 congressmen, 1 president, and 9 Supreme Court justices 545 human beings out of the 300 million are directly, legally, morally, and individually responsible for the domestic problems that plague this country.

Excluded the members of the Federal Reserve Board because that problem was created by the Congress. In 1913, Congress delegated its Constitutional duty to provide a sound currency to a federally chartered, but private, central bank.

Excluded all the special interests and lobbyists for a sound reason. They have no legal authority. They have no ability to coerce a senator, a congressman, or a president to do one thing. If they offer a politician a million dollars in cash. The politician has the power to accept or reject it. No matter what the lobbyist promises, it is the legislator's responsibility to determine how he votes.

Those 545 human beings spend much of their energy convincing you that what they did is not their fault. They cooperate in this common con regardless of party.

What separates a politician from a normal human being is an excessive amount of gall. The president can only propose a budget. He cannot force the Congress to accept it.

The Constitution, which is the supreme law of the land, gives sole responsibility to the House of Representatives for originating and approving appropriations and taxes. House of Representatives can approve any budget they want. If the president vetoes it, they can pass it over his veto if they agree to.

It seems inconceivable that a nation of 300 million cannot replace 545 people who stand convicted -- by present facts -- of incompetence and irresponsibility. No single domestic problem is not traceable directly to those 545 people. When you fully grasp the plain truth that 545 people exercise the power of the federal government, then it must follow that what exists is what they want to exist.

If the tax code is unfair, it's because they want it unfair.

If the budget is in the red, it's because they want it in the red.

If the Marines are in IRAQ , it's because they want them in IRAQ .

If they do not receive social security but are on an elite retirement plan not available to the people, it's because they want it that way.

There are no insoluble government problems.

Do not let 545 people shift the blame to bureaucrats, whom they hire and whose jobs they can abolish; to lobbyists, whose gifts and advice they can reject; to regulators, to whom they give the power to regulate and from whom they can take this power. Above all, do not let them con you into the belief that there exists disembodied mystical forces like 'the economy,' 'inflation,' or 'politics' that prevent them from doing what they take an oath to do.

Those 545 people, and they alone, are responsible.

They, and they alone, have the power.

They, and they alone, should be held accountable by the people who are their bosses provided the voters have the gumption to manage their own employees.

We should vote all of them out of office and clean up their mess! .

What you do with this now that you have read it is up to you.

1. You can send this to everyone in your address book, and hope they do something about it.

2. You can agree to vote against everyone that is currently in office, knowing that the process will take several years.

3. You can decide to run for office yourself and agree to do the job properly.

4. Lastly, you can sit back and do nothing, or re-elect the current bunch.

YOU DECIDE,

BUT AT LEAST SEND IT TO EVERYONE, MAYBE SOME WILL DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!

'They who would give up an essential liberty for temporary security, deserve neither liberty or security.' -- Benjamin Franklin

(Personal Note: If anyone of us were this inept and did this, we would be fired or out of business. So why not fire them all and lets start over. Now as you know, this is my personal opinion and my personal blog, so anything I say here does not reflect Oasis Church opinion or policy. But I bet it does represent 99% of the normal American Citizen. The only ones who might disagree don't really know whats happening or either they don't want to get their head out of the proverbial partisan sand, and thats my humble personal opinion) 

October 02, 2008

Another Reason I Stress Community Groups

You might get tired of me talking about Community Groups , but for 17 years I have maintained that you can't actually be connected at Oasis Church if you're not in a small group doing life with other believers. This was true when we had just a few hundred, and it's especially true now with several thousand in our church family.

Singlemomshwr1 I was sent this story just yesterday about one of our Community Groups of Single moms. It came from the Leader of the group, Debby Brown. She had spent the last several days at the hospital with her father while he was having tests done.  It was awesome. You ladies are such a blessing.

"I had to share what happened to me tonight... when I went by the church to pick up Jim ... the ladies in my Community  group on Thursday Night brought food by for our family... they had made dinners, and brought so much food it will last for two weeks...
It was so awesome to watch God work not only as a recipient, but I am so excited to see these ladies get it and understand about Community ....
 God is God! You can not out give God - His hands are so all around!
 thanks for being my friend... I just had to express what God is doing..."
 Debby

Another Oasis Story you need to read!!!

This Story was received this week by one of our long-time members, Celia Gaynor. This is what Oasis Church is all about!!!  This is what our Values of Worship, Community, and Mission is all about. You'll be blessed:

"Hello all,

 

I just wanted to say thanks so much for your kind thoughts and prayers during my recent hospital stay, you won’t believe how much it meant to me.  This whole experience has taught me a thing or two about Community group as Pastor Guy is always going on about.

 

·         I was admitted last Monday the 22nd and by mid Tuesday morning I had flowers from the church and I knew that Polly my  Small group leader had a hand in it somewhere.  It literally brought tears to my eyes to know that I was not forgotten, thinking about it even now I get emotional.Councilbabydedication17anniversary 028 (The Picture below is of Polly in the white Blouse) 

·         That’s not all, on my way to the surgery on Wednesday I saw this person I recognized rushing towards me in the hall way and I could barely say to her, I know you and she said yes Polly called, and all the way to the OR she kept up a running commentary of different things and she took me into the preparation area and told her co-workers about me since she was getting off duty and had to pick up her kids at school, I really didn’t  know that Shelia Bush could talk so much, thank God for that because it sure took my mind off the surgery.

·         In the recovery room there was another member of our church to take me back to my room, it seems there were all these people doing angelic things.

·         On the way there we met Pastor James Brown, for a second I thought this must have been the big one because here comes Pastor JamesJ

·         Throughout all this Polly and my Community group was in contact with me all the time on the phone and in visits

 

30 Days to Live The most weird thing was that we take turns leading in our group and I was it for Tuesday night week two Eternal PerspectiveWell  I was home on 2 days because I was not feeling well at the time and I spent those days studying with the focus on What do you think heaven will be like?   I was ready for this class I read all the scriptures I could find relating to heaven and for some reason I spent most of my reading on John 14, (let not your heart be troubled) OK  I could handle this.  (in my father’s house are many mansions) this is getting better and better, imagine me in a mansion, but it was verses 16 – 18 that really touched my heart that day, my heavenly Father promised me a comforter and I was holding him to it and he did not let me down.

I must tell you that I read this chapter several time in the King James version and then I thought I would like to read it also in the NIV version.  I liked the King James version best, after all the NIV says rooms instead of mansions and advocate instead of comforter which is what I needed at that time.

Many many thanks to Oasis Church and Polly and the team."

 

 

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